hello ! i'm strwbryfemme (ෆ•ܫ•ෆ)

Hiii this is Cat from 04/03/2025. (they/them pronouns or neos only pleeease stop misgendering me gang) I've noticed people using my femme flag from back in the day, and I've also noticed people speculating on my opinions and takes regarding queer discourse and whether or not my flag is acceptable to use. I just wanted to put up an update on my thoughts and feelings where everyone could see, since I deleted my old Twitter account and it seems someone else has the handle now.I. do not have the time for queer discourse. I really just don't. I've seen people saying that I think only binary WLW can be lesbians.... no ?? I have never said that and I don't know where that's coming from at all. I am an agender lesbian, living in an apartment with my genderfluid lesbian girlfriend and our two cats. I used to identify as genderdoe, as seen on this carrd from 2021. I can understand people calling me an exclusionist based on my previous views regarding bi/pan lesbians and the toothpaste gay flag. i was unnecessarily aggressive towards fellow queer people 4 years ago, and I am very sorry about that. my current take is that queer solidarity matters more to me than queer discourse. that should have been my take from square one, honestly, but that's where i am now. i dont care if we disagree on the definition of a lesbian, we are all being oppressed and we need to stick together. safety first.i think flag discourse is incredibly stupid, which i know is rich coming from someone who was at the center of flag discourse all throughout 2020/2021, but believe it or not, moving halfway across the country all on your own twice and just generally going from 19 years old to 22 years old causes you to stop and put a lot of things into perspective. i guess the whole point of this message is that I want people to know that distancing myself from online discourse and focusing instead on my local community and my personal life has made me a much healthier and happier person, and i am ashamed of how toxic and controlling i was 4 years ago. nobody has to use the femme flag I made 4 years ago if they don't want to; but please stop spreading misinformation about it. flag discourse does nothing but divide the community even further. all queer people are deserving of love and safety, and even if we disagree regarding definitions, or can't personally wrap our heads around one anothers' identities, the safety and support of our fellow queer people is of paramount importance, and should always always ALWAYS be the priority.** same day edit oh my god i am not that alison person. my current account is a private account with a url that has nothing to do with strawberries or femmes and i have under 50 followers and i intend to keep it that way, i never want a large platform ever again. please stop saying that we are the same person lmfao no i did not detransition no i am not a radfem please stop referring to me with she/her pronouns if anything sticks let it be that please